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Clinical psychologist and relationship therapist, Dr Jane Major, returns to talk gifts and giving in this seasonal episode. The topic was grand gestures and expensive gifts.
We discussed:
What do we mean by a grand gesture or expensive gift? Typically one that seems disproportionate with the income or wealth of the giver or receiver;
Martha’s discomfort with expensive gifts - ways they can be manipulative, set up a relationship as transactional instead of connected, buying a pass for unkind behaviour, reciprocity issues adn expectations;
Jane’s experiences of giving expensive gifts as cover for low self-esteem;
gifs in dating;
gifts in nuclear and extended families;
communicating about gift preferences;
setting boundaries around gift giving;
earning to trust and accept expensive gifts when given in healthy relationships.
You can find out more about Jane and her therapy practice at The Room Between.
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